Poem Piece of Scriptures

a piece of scripture with commentary, 
 
Wisdom of Ben Sira 30
22 Give not up thy soul to sadness, and afflict not thyself in thy own counsel.
23 The joyfulness of the heart, is the life of a man, and a never failing treasure of holiness: and the joy of a man is length of life.
24 Have pity on thy own soul, pleasing God, and contain thyself: gather up thy heart in his holiness: and drive away sadness far from thee.
25 For sadness hath killed many, and there is no profit in it.
26 Envy and anger shorten a man's days, and pensiveness will bring old age before the time.
27 A Cheerful and good heart is always feasting: for his banquets are prepared with diligence.
 
HE means to keep the wife as a holy gift, no matter what she does, really it’s with all that THE LORD has put into your hand. It is the fact that GOD gave them, do you keep them a good gift, a very good gift technically, so says GOD, then it is so. And it is not “not good” that man be alone. Then keep them all as a “very good” gift, from THE ONE FATHER. Let him sort them out, and you just stand under ONE GOD. 
In another place Ben Sira says, “GOD will hate them.”  before that he warns don’t concern yourself with them. He means you keep the charge, and don’t be overcome with evil, but overcome evil with good, as too The Apostle says. 
The family is what they are after, and the evil one must get you to throw it down, and not only this, but you must keep it down, striving against this truth, will but make you dust. Your already defeated, cut in half, children orphaned, and you so drunk you don’t even see to recognize they have you in widowed status, or there is GOD who is never done, and who alone keeps the covenant, that all fall under his supremacy of magnanimity, so as to feel, know, be aware of His Grace the same. 
 Actually a very beautiful piece of scripture, a revelry, a call of ‘IF YOU LOVE THEM, DIE FOR THEM!” if you love them suffer for them.” DO I NOT DESERVE THE REWARD OF MY SUFFERINGS? DON’T I DESERVE THOSE FOR WHOM I DIE?” yes Jesus does, and GOD says all men do. That is why he has appointed the lamb to be slain from the foundation of the world.  To die for her, for them, as a father to his family, an officer to his troop, a shepherd to his flock.